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Praying For Rain

Last night we got the first bit of rain we’ve had in a long time. I’m cannot remember if I actually spent time praying for rain this go-around, but I can say that in the past I certainly have. I would have never done this as a youth. I would have never done this a college student. It wasn’t until I lived in an agrarian town called Clinton when I actually prayed for rain. I was just never really aware of my need for it. I always fished salt water; and that water never runs dry. But people’s crops were dying and their cows were hungry.

Yet now, even without cows and crops, I know that rain is quite necessary. Even though it might mess up fishing and cause my satellite not to work, praying for rain is good. As I’ve matured, I’ve become more aware of my needs. That’s really what much of our Christian growth looks like. Not that we need less, but that we need more. With rain and Jesus, the older and more mature we get, the more (not the less) we realize our need for him. If you find yourself thinking you need Jesus less, or at least are acting like you need Jesus less, then you’re really heading in the wrong direction.

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Intentional Leaving


I’m reading a book now called the The Tangible Kingdom, a book about creating in-carnational community centered around Jesus’ Kingdom. Here are some ideas from a chapter called “Leaving,” dealing with leaving the confines of your comfort zone to build bridges with non-believers, or as these writers call them: Sojourners. I guess because everyone is somewhere on a spiritual journey.

1.) Letting people live with you in your home for extended periods of time.….giving up space, time, comfort for the sake of connecting with Sojourners. “In the five years that we’ve lived in Denver, we’ve had people living with us more than four hundred of those days.”

2.) Having dinners or doing dinners out with Sojourners. As a church planter he commits one night a week, but what about one night or meal a month?

3.) Doing what you love with others (hobbies).

4.) Going out of your way to build relationships. “I look to see whose car is in the parking lot at our Starbucks. If it’s a Sojourner I’ve been trying to include in my life, I’ll pull over, go in, buy a quick coffee, try to make some good conversation, and then on my way out, throw my coffee away without even taking a sip (if he’s already had 8 cups that day).”

5.) Looking for chances to talk. “When I have seen a neighbor outside our street, I’ve specifically gone out to ‘get my mail,’ just so I could converse a bit more with him or her.”

Letting others live with you would definitely be the hardest, and perhaps more appropriate at some times than others. However that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t do it. The rest of these ways are simply common sense ways of INTENTIONALLY “leaving” for the sake of others. Simple but intentional.

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Little Drummer Boy

This is a verse that came to mind while Connar was “drumming” with a pair of spoons.

NIV Ecclesiastes 9:10 “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.”

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Great illustration from The Rare Jewel


Here’s another excerpt from The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment. This book is filled with illustration upon illustration. I wonder why so many who appreciate Puritan works do not make use of illustration in their preaching. They have good precedent should the start to do so! Anyhow, check out this awesome illustration:

So if we would be vessels to receive God’s mercy, and would have the Lord pour His mercy to into us, we must have quiet still hearts. We must not have hearts hurrying up and down in trouble, discontent, and vexing, but still and quiet hearts. If a child throws and kicks up and down for a thing, you do not give it him when he cries so, but first you will have the child quiet. Even though you perhaps intend him to have what he cries for, you will not give it to him till he is quiet, and comes, and stands still before you, and is contented without it, and then you will give it to him. And truly so does the Lord deal with us, for our dealings with him are just as your froward children’s are with you.

For the Lord to give us something that we could not be content without would only lead us further into idolatry and away from Him. If we’re not content without a spouse, a better spouse, a better car, bigger church, bigger house, church plant, etc….we’ll not only be discontent with those things, but we’ll look to those things for life and find them severely lacking.

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Detergent vs. Soap



On Sunday afternoon, I tried to do something nice for Amy and go ahead and run the dishwasher. After about 10 minutes I realized that my niceness was combined with stupidity. I used dish SOAP instead of dish DETERGENT. I would recommend you not do that. Ever. Because you will get lots of foam and bubbles, and you’ll end up using your entire arsenal of towels. Fortunately my neighbor instructed me that bleach reduces the foam. So after a few hours, a little bleach, and more than a few towels later, our dishwasher was back to normal.

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Coffeehouse Done




Thanks for all those who supported our Coffeehouse by praying, helping set up, serve food, by participating, by coming (especially those who came both nights!), and by inviting folks.
The event was a blast and we had a number of folks from the community stop by. A fishing buddy of mine already informed me (he actually promoted it on our kayak website) what a great time he and his friends had. Several bands have already expressed interest in performing again. And I would be remiss not to mention the number of folks who simply thanked me for having this type of event. So all in all, quite a success. In case you didn’t see the article from the Herald, an article which encouraged a number of folks to attend, click here to read it.

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Confess your biases up front

I was at a youth leader meeting today. I always feel a little precarious at such meetings since I’m really not a youth pastor.

Anyhow, the meeting was encouraging in that we had a few different denominations present. But in a hope to maintain some sense of unity, the leader continued to emphasize how he was a Christian first, and southern Baptist second. He claimed to just “work for a Southern Baptist church.”

But I know the guy well enough to know that he thinks of, and does ministry in Southern Baptist forms like “altar calls.” The way he interprets scripture is also from a Baptist lens.

Now first let me say that we should all model his “Christian first, denomination second” mentality. Many don’t and that is sad, and sometimes that includes me I confess with shame. Many place the same level of certainty or pride (even worse) on denominational distinctives-or even worse, distinctives within the denomination-as they do with the faith expressed in the Apostles Creed.

In addition, he places more emphasis on small groups and follow-up after the event than most do. I applaud him for that.

But I would argue that by downplaying your biases and emphases, you really fall prey to perpetuate them, ignore others, and become less ecumenical. If you don’t readily admit that you do ministry and interpret scripture from your tradition’s bias, you’ll never be able to dialog and learn from other traditions. You’ll never see shortcomings of yours. When others think differently, you’ll think they are reading stuff into the bible, while you are “just reading the bible.”

The two main sponsoring churches for this upcoming event (that’s what the meeting was about) are PCA and Southern Baptist. I think by recognizing each others ministry emphases, biases, strengths and weaknesses, we can more effectively learn from and work with each other. But pretending that neither group has biases actually hinders effective ecumencial cooperation. Only by confessing your “spin” will you limit the negative impact of your “spin” and be able to learn from others.

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Gospel on the ground

Amy and I had an opportunity to share the gospel with a fellow passenger on our way home from Atlanta last Thursday. Since lightning struck the tower and caused a fire, we didn’t go anywhere for 2 hours after boarding. The woman sitting next to us was very loquacious and brought up some topics that made it easy for a gospel transition.

Two things that stood out from our time sitting at the terminal:

1.) If you hear another couple engaging in gospel conversation behind you, don’t turn around and interject, and proceed to give a canned gospel presentation of stuff you think may have been left out. One lady did that, and later our new friend joked that she felt we had “ganged up on her.” She joked, but she wasn’t entirely joking. Amy and I spent a lot of time-which we had plenty of-asking questions, listening, and responding at appropriate times. The best thing would have been for this lady to pray for us. We needed it.

2.) When in doubt, go for the Prodigal Son story. For a long time in our conversation, it felt like we just couldn’t get across to our friend that the gospel was something entirely different than any other religion. It wasn’t just the same religion or the same thing she believed with a different “label.” So following Keller’s example, I used that parable as a lens to view Christianity. It was so appropriate because Jesus told that parable when he confronted people who were confident in their own goodness. After the story, she began to see that the gospel was something entirely different. We worked so long just to get to the point where we could say, “There is a fundamental difference in what you and we are espousing.”

It was her goodness just as much as her badness that got in the way. It’s sad to me when people don’t realize how much they desperately need a Savior. But it’s also sad when that someone is me.

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Coffeehouse this Friday and Saturday

For the past 3 years, Hope Pres has hosted an art show for the community. Last year we added live music and it made quite a difference in not only the quality of the event: it kept folks there a lot longer. So this Friday May 1st and Saturday May 2nd from 7-10 pm, we’ll be making it 4 years in a row.

I’ve slightly tweaked the vision and purpose for the show over the years. The past two years our primary focus has been to:

1.) Bless the community by giving them a culturally enriching experience
2.) Bless the artists and musicians in the community by giving them a venue to sell and/or display their work

If you’re in the area, grab someone and come on out to support this free event. It’s worth the price of admission, and you can grab some free Starbuck’s coffee as well.