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Amazon eventually caves

It looks like Amazon.com has finally removed the controversial pro-pedaphilia book from their website one day after reportedly holding their ground. Was it capitalism that motivated them to sell it in the first place? Obviously they’re after the bottom dollar. Was it capitalism that motivated them to then remove it from their website? A boycott was called for; they would have probably lost more money than they would have gained from the sell of the book. I guess this is one example where capitalism, albeit inadvertently, had a public morally beneficial outcome.

But some questions still remain for me. What would have happened if amazon.com hadn’t removed this content? Would it be morally wrong to continue to order “Christian” (or any books for that matter) from such an entity? I now order all my books, as well as most other things through amazon.com, because its easy and free shipping. Should I have stopped?

Even though this e-book was removed, this article actually mentions some other questionable stuff. Should the sell of questionable material stop me from buying good material from them?

When is an economic boycott necessitated? Should we rely solely on such means, or is it better to have government play a more hand’s on role and not rely on the consumer in such situations? Since all legislation is essentially moral in nature, would this even be much of a stretch to assume that the Federal government should intervene?

Free speech, (the moral category which justified the publishing of this book) which we Americans love, is obviously a slippery slope. And I presume the question of how it should be regulated will not be getting any easier.

I’m not attempting to answer any questions, but simply passing on questions which I’m now beginning to ponder.

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Spicing things up during drier times

I’ve heard from several different folks recently about how their devotional time with the Lord has been a little slow. Folks who are in the Word, reading daily or fairly daily, haven’t been experiencing “rich” times they once experienced. 
We’ve all come across periods of time when this is the case. And by the way, these “dry periods” don’t necessarily mean that you’re not walking with the Lord (although of course you can quench the Spirit’s work by continued unrepentant sin). More often than not, this can be a way God is actually growing your faith through His silence. We have to learn to remain faithful to the Lord even when He’s feels silent, and encourage others to do so as well. He’s still there, but sometimes He’s more silent. Some Psalms attest to this fact and call for God not to be silent (Psalm 35). Yet God is at work still, making our faith less dependent upon our experience and more dependent upon His character. Here are a few things that have helped me during such a silent period.
1.) Read some narratives. These narratives in the bible are enjoyable. There is nothing wrong with spending your devotional time reading and enjoying them. We are supposed to enjoy them. The cool thing is that they’re inspired by God and He uses these stories to point us to Christ, the main character of all stories. Take a break and read Genesis, Judges, Kings, the Gospels, Acts, etc…
2.) “Spice up” your devotional life by supplementing some reading in addition to the scriptures. You don’t need to add more time, but feel free to split it up with some good devotional reading and scripture. I’m now going through Ezekiel, but also have benefited from Sinclair Ferguson’s In Christ Alone: Living the gospel centered life. This book is filled with 5-10 minute readings that are more of a systematic theology in small doses.
Amy is now going through John Piper’s A Godward Life to supplement her scripture reading and it has been very helpful. 
Anyhow, here are just a few examples of things that have helped me. Feel free to comment and add some other things which have helped you in the “drier” devotional times.
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I’ll trade you a ticket for an autograph

Here’s an interesting post on how Baltimore Raven’s running back Ray Rice got out of a ticket by offering an autograph for the police officer’s son. Obviously we don’t know this happened because of the police officer’s pang of conscience, but because Rice tweeted it.

It is telling how we all like to brag about getting away with stuff. Such is the natural state of the heart.

All I can say for Rice is, at least he didn’t play the “Do you know who I am?” card. At least we don’t think he did because it wasn’t in his tweet.

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A Pastor Coming out of the Closet

One of the blogs I follow every now and then is church plant guru and Lifeway Research head Ed Stetzer. Here is one of his recent posts about a prominent mega-church pastor who recently came out of the closet. If you want to, you can actually see a video of Jim Swilley addressing his congregation. I’ve watched about 20 minutes of it, and it is pretty sad and frustrating. Instead of stepping down, or taking a leave of absence, this man has spent time actually defending his position by the “I was born this way and can’t go against my nature” stance. Not that he had any credibility to begin with, but he compared those who speak against his stance with those telling a woman how she should feel while in labor or in PMS. Yikes.
Here are just a few thoughts. Ed has some good, gracious and truthful ones on his post as well.
1.) This is an example of the weakness of an unaccountable charismatic/pentecostal lifestyle where God just “speaks to you” all the time and tells you this or that. When folks play the “God told me so card,” we need not be afraid to say, “Actually, no He didn’t.” He says right here in His Word the very opposite thing you’re saying. Don’t think “God told me so” is a trump card. God’s Word is the trump card.
2.) Just because one may feel gay attractions, regardless if those have been there since the age of 4-as this man claims-doesn’t mean that you should act on them. Henri Nouwen, a well known author and Catholic Priest, reportedly lived with same sex attraction but chose to remain chaste (who knows what he would have done if he weren’t a priest-but that’s really beside the point). This man is currently celibate, and plans to remain that way, but wouldn’t make any promises about the future. So we can rest assure that homosexuals actively seeking (not struggling) and living in homosexual relationships will not not be convicted through his preaching.
3.) Swilley claims that he is called to preach the gospel; he is as sure of that as he is of his sexual orientation. Unfortunately there is a huge segment of life which the gospel is not reaching for him and won’t for those sitting under his preaching. But WE all need a sober reminder that the gospel is a proclamation that Jesus is Lord over all of life: our sexuality, our finances, our marriages, our politics, our hobbies. Its easy to point the finger at this lad, without considering any areas where Christ isn’t being submitted to as Lord in our own lives. 
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Kingdom Costumes: We won’t get fooled again?

One thing about the gospel message-all that God has done/is doing/will do for His people in Christ-is that you never outgrow your need of it. No matter how much you grow in your faith, begin displaying the fruit of the Spirit, see your love for others increase, you always need Jesus’ forgiveness, love, encouragement, and power. 
Here’s a reminder from Paul Tripp, who wrote Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands, about how much we still need the gospel because we masquerade in costumes which make others think we are Kingdom centered, yet we really just care about our own kingdoms. Pretty convicting. From mothers who desire obedient children to pastors who look for a spiritually vibrant and growing congregations, none of us have 100% pure motives. They look good from the outside, but we often fool others, and even ourselves. But Jesus isn’t fooled one bit.
Now some might consider this morbid, or defeatist, to think that just about everything we do has tainted motives. Maybe even praying with your kids!
But its not. Knowing your messed-up heart motivations makes you run to Jesus, and bring your dreams and desires to Him. Knowing that you need the gospel, makes you cherish and want the gospel that much more. Someone posted this article on facebook and said that it “stirred the pot.”
I really can’t see why, because I’m beginning to get more of a glimpse of my own heart and need for Jesus. I hope the same for you, and that as a result, you see the Holy Spirit produce more Christ-centered love in your relationships as opposed to self-centered love masquerading as the real deal.

As The Who once sang, my hope is this: “We won’t get fooled again.”

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Making Room at the Leadership Table

I just finished reading the book Sticky Teams, by Larry Osborne. While I won’t write a review of the book here, or anywhere for that matter, I did want to pass on some info which may be helpful for anyone in any church at any size. 
Osborne has pastored a church in California called North Coast Church for 3 decades and has humbly, but confidently, passed on some principles which he thinks will help create solid leadership teams. I didn’t feel like he sought out to give a formula for church growth-though his church has long since reached “Mega” status-but to help lay down leadership principles which he has learned throughout the years. So I really appreciated that.
What he did well was give numerous practical examples of how to build a team. Of course I’m not a senior pastor of a huge church, but then again most people aren’t. Yet I found a number of chapters  helpful for anyone involved in ministry in a local church. One particular chapter seemed apropos for all churches: Making Room at the Top-Why young eagles don’t stay.”
One thing which will ensure a church not to grow numerically, and only grow older and older without any influx of new folks, is the unwillingness of existing leadership to make room for new leaders. Over a prolonged period of time, this will leave a huge generation gap as developing leaders have no place to serve.
In regards to the practicality of actually applying this principle, Osborne recognizes it is incredibly hard and painstaking. He applies many of these principles to volunteer or staff teams, saying, “No one ever decides to change seats on their own.”
However, I don’t think this is always the case, as I’ve seen some evidence of the opposite here at Redeemer: leaders passing off areas of leadership to newer (not necessarily younger) faces. From allowing a newer person to oversee any area of children’s ministry, to training someone for projector/Media shout duties, we’re moving in the right direction. So I’ve seen this spirit of “making room” at Redeemer, and will pray it continues as the church matures.
Making room at the leadership table simply involves a desire to see new leadership raised up. A good leader is always raising up new leaders, and making room at the table by training others, scooting over, and sharing responsibilities/decision making.
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When going to church might get yourself killed

Here is another story of violent persecution against believers. These folks were attacked and killed while actually worshiping inside their church in the Middle East.
Let me supply a few brief “takes:”
1.) It just makes you wonder where we’ve gone wrong in America, where corporate worship is just an option among many to do on a Sunday morning. If you’re too tired, have sporting events, just need a break, family time, don’t like the rain, etc…And if its snowing or sleeting, then forget about it. It’s just too dangerous.
Yet why is it different in other countries, where folks WANT to gather for worship, and even risk their lives to do so? Is Jesus more precious to them?
I wonder what church attendance would be like in America if it were actually dangerous to go to church. If you were actually risking your life to gather together for worship, would it inspire the adventurous, curtail the cautious, or give life to the nominal believer?
We don’t need to feel guilty for living in America, but I think looking at the suffering of other believers around the world really exposes our idol of comfort and safety.
2.) While a number of folks in the pews would probably articulate a description of the Trinity that might in some ways be heretical (a pastor once told me this and I tend to believe him), no one would argue that the Trinity is actually three gods. Even though no one can fully understand how three Persons can be distinct and yet equal in power and glory, we still know that somehow God is still one God. 

And we know that but Muslims don’t. We are very much a polytheistic religion to them, as you can see in this article. Such is the title Christians get for claiming that Jesus is who He claims Himself to be. All three persons and their equality are very much present in Jesus’ dialog with His disciples in John 14 in case you think you’re taking crazy pills when you believe in the Triune God.

 

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Doubt like a child

Last night, before I arrived home to watch the waning minutes of the Bucs victory over the Arizona Cardinals, I had the opportunity to lead yet another discussion on the Nickel Creek’s “Doubting Thomas.” This time it was with Redeemer’s Jr. High. 
Of course I made the mistake of not explaining what a “doubting Thomas” was (you just can’t assume biblical literacy, although I’m pretty sure Doubting Thomas is used as a secular term as well), and that was my fault. But once we got past that, discussion, along with the craziness of 15 middle-schoolers in a small room, flowed like the New River.
One thing I found very interesting with the Jr. High was their attention to detail with the song lyrics. They wanted to know what every line meant. I didn’t get that with the Sr. High’s. 
But what I found most profound was their quick, without hesitation answer to my question, “So, what would you say are some of the things you doubt?” The Sr High didn’t say anything. The Jr. High kids said everything. 
They were unashamed, as they should be, to admit doubting and having some questions about key doctrinal issues. Of course some of them weren’t really doubts, and many of the questions had legitimate answers with which we’ll follow up. Yet there were some serious doubts present.
But the cool thing is that their questions and doubts were brought before a community: to each other and to their leaders. Youth group had become a safe place. I had them read Jude 22, which is not your most commonly read verse in the world, but very apropos to doubts: “Have mercy on those who doubt.” They were already applying that verse, with of course, having no idea who the heck Jude was.
No one felt ashamed to admit he/she wondered about what heaven was like, if it is was real at all, and who all would be there.
I don’t tend to like the attention span of Jr Highers, but I do love their honesty. If they keep these doubts inside, we don’t have a clue they exist. Yet what freedom we have to bring our doubts to Jesus (Mark 9:23-24)-that’s where we ended the discussion. Doubts love to be alone and stay as far away from Jesus as possible because they know they can’t survive in Christ centered community.

While this seems the opposite of having “faith like a child,” which Jesus saw and praised in children, I think he would have also praised this honesty as well, saying, “doubt like a child.” After all a child like faith isn’t afraid to admit where it falls short.

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Following in little brother’s footsteps

Who doesn’t love a good story of second chances, redemption, and Buccaneers football? Well, I might have gone a little overboard on the latter, but this is a cool story about how an older brother and convicted felon, followed the path of his younger brother to play football at the University of Illinois. Since the lad did hard time in West Virginia, I’m thinking he may actually be from West Virginia, so that might interest some of the readership. Check it out here.

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Henderson Halloween in Hurricane

Halloween in Hurricane W.V. runs a bit differently that Halloween in Bradenton, or Halloween in any place for that matter where I’ve lived the past 33 years. Its more of a socialist style. The powers that be regulate WHEN trick-or-treating will take place; this year it was Thursday, Oct 28th from 6-8 pm. Kind of weird, but this Halloween provided a number of great opportunities. 
We had some friends from our old apartment complex come over and share a meal with us. Then afterward Strawberry Shortcake and Batman traversed the neighborhood roads, forgetting all that we taught them about the evils of the street. I got to meet several neighbors, who had otherwise seemed to care very little that we had moved in near them. In addition, we received some more invitations to play with some families in the “younger” neighborhood just below ours (yes, here in hilly WV, neighborhoods are often below or above each other!).

If your conviction keeps you inside for Halloween, then that’s fine with me. But I wanted to share how the Devil’s holiday opened up some future evangelistic and friendship opportunities for the Henderson’s. At least for us, I hardly think Satan was pleased with our evening.